Saturday, February 28, 2015

A Q & A With Justin Bates (aka the guy who makes me do burpees)

I sat down earlier today with Justin Bates at Healthtrax in West Springfield armed with questions from friends and family.  Justin and I started working together a year ago almost to the day. With almost a decade of experience and multiple certifications, including NASM (National Association of Sports Medicine) and PES3 (Performance Enhancement Specialist), Justin has worked with clients from every background, age and fitness level.

Justin Bates, NASM & PES3 Certified Personal Trainer

      We started out today with using the InBody body composition machine. If you really want to know you're made of, this thing is incredible.  It lets you know how much muscle mass, fat, water not just in your body, but each arm, leg and trunk.  Its terrific information and it allows you to get very specific in your goals.  If you hit a plateau, this machine lets you know for sure where your focus needs to be.  Or it will tell you that you haven't hit a plateau at all.  I thought my weight loss had stalled, but in fact I've lost quite a bit of fat and made some serious muscle gains.  
      I had done this in November and wanted to update before the beginning of my first Tribe Training season. I was actuallypretty shocked by the results, it took a while for it to sink in.  Apparently, I went from 30% body fat in November to 23% body fat today.  I am pretty happy with that!
     Our conversation today began with a question that is pretty dear to my own heart.  I’m often asked why I pay for a trainer when there is so much out there for free.  I usually reply with, “If I was going to do it or able to do it alone, I would have long before now.”  The simple fact is, we don't do it.  Most of us don't take the time to care for ourselves, just look at the obesity rates here in the states and its pretty damn clear. 
     Working with a trainer keeps me accountable. It motivates me to go back again and again and gives me the confidence and knowledge on how to continuously set new goals and try new things. In fact, the questions that were posted or sent to me included this very question.  

Here is our conversation and your questions. (In moments where I chime in, I’m in italics.)

Why work with a trainer? 

Everyone needs a trainer! Accountability. (Justin handed me a sheet of paper listing all the benefits of working with a personal coach/trainer, here are the reasons)
  • ·         Accountability
  • ·         Optimize your workout time
  • ·         Ensure proper form
  • ·         Accurate assessment
  • ·         Exercise safety through proper form and adequate rest
  • ·         Everyone benefits from a personal trainer/coach. The top athletes in the world all use trainers so “knowing enough” to work out on your own is not an excuse.
  • ·         A trainer will push you beyond your comfort zone while staying within your limits.  People tend not to push themselves beyond their comfort zone.
  • ·         Personalization
  • ·         Motivation
  • ·         Niche specialties –

o   Functional and mobility training
o   Body fat loss
o   Strength and muscle gain
o   Older adults
o   Youth fitness
o   Athletes
o   Sport specific
o   Speed and agility
o   Pre/Post-Natal
o   Post-menopausal (staving off osteoporosis)
  • ·         Improved flexibility with assisted stretching
  • ·         Easy access to a community and support system

Some of the trainers at Healthtrax after just finishing up their first Tribe Training season!


What makes a person successful at making these changes stick for the long term? 

Consistency.

Can you think of someone who really surprised you in their willingness to change and improve their health? 

Well, yeah. A lot of people.  I’ll give you an example.  I worked with this one woman. She never worked out in her life, she was sixty-three years old, she came to me like fifty pounds overweight. She lost fifty pounds and she just stuck with it. Her form was great, she just listened and did everything we told her to do. She lost all the weight. She came in every single day, changed her whole lifestyle and built it around her life.  She would tell people, ‘Nope, can’t do this anymore.  I’m going to the gym first.’ She made going to the gym her priority. She made working out a lifestyle at sixty-three. She was a grandmother, she had four boys.  She looked like she was in her early 50’s.  That was a great one!

 What are the most common missteps you see from someone just getting started?  

Thinking they can’t. Thinking that it’s something that’s too much for them.  Or even over doing it, trying to do too much at once. If you’re going to start with exercise, sometimes, for most people, its too hard  to do diet and exercise. Start moving then work on little things.  Then add little changes.  Baby steps can go a long way.

How about motivation?  A FB question came in about getting up at 8am in the cold and dark days of winter. 

Wake up, don’t hit snooze, get your feet on the ground. Get up! Just get your ass up!

What would you say to the person who wants to make a change, but can’t quite get there?

That’s another reason you need a trainer.  Accountability. If you have something to be accountable for, like a doctor’s appointment, you don’t blow that off.  Making that appointment with somebody is important, even if it’s just to get your foot in the door.

Should I stick to a low carb diet, calorie counting, paleo, Whole30?  I need to lose a lot of weight, like over 80 pounds, and I’m so confused I don’t know where to start.

That’s tough.  That’s a good one.  It kind of depends on her… paleo can be extreme and hard. Calorie counting can be difficult too.  Well, what worked for you?

Calorie counting worked for me for two reasons, one I had to eat. I tend to go into bad old habits of extreme dieting. 900 calories a day. Two, calorie counting meant I could anything I wanted, as long as I stayed in my limit. After a while, I changed it up to make sure the calories I was eating were quality. You get to a point where you’re fuelling a workout.

Calorie counting is one way. The easiest way I found was the AdvoCare way. They have a simple plan, all laid out for you, you get the whole 24 day challenge plan to steer people in the right direction.  It’s the best diet plan I’ve found that’s worked for so many people. 

Paleo, I do know a guy here who lost 100 pounds on it, but he’s totally focused and the kind of guy who can stick to it. Paleo is boring and tough to stick to, unless you are the type of person who can do that.  Low carb does work; but I would say calorie counting.  There are so many apps for that, everyone has a smartphone now. I think that way is pretty good.  Finding out what your Basal Metabolic Rate is, like the InBody shows, and going off that can really help you with that. Even the apps give you a ballpark figure of what you should be taking in. 

The calories are always more than you think too, its never good to eat 1200 calories a day.

Well, that’s the old Weight Watchers thing.  

Yeah, I mean if you’re overweight and all of a sudden you’re trying to eat 1200 calories a day, you’re not going to be successful.   

No, you’re not.

I’ve lost the weight. Switching to a maintenance diet is terrifying for me. I’m scared to go back to my old habits. Any advice for those of us who hit their goal?

Make a new goal. Create a new goal. Whether its gaining some muscle or gaining some strength, but new goals. This way you won’t get complacent and move backwards.

I’m 65. I’ve been a couch potato since my 30’s. I have bad knees, high blood pressure and everything else that goes along with a lifetime of bad choices. Where would someone like me start?

Go to a gym, meet with one of us and we can get you started.  At least get your foot in the door. Starting with some cardio, you just gotta get moving first. That’s the best thing I can think of. If you’re already stuck at home, you’re not going to do it at home.

I love lifting weights.  I lift four days per week and I’m really happy with where I’m at, but I feel like I should add in cardio.  I can barely run for more than five minutes without feeling winded. I don’t also want to lose muscle.  Any ideas?  

Umm, yes. Start circuit training. Strength circuits.  Doing say, three exercises and go back to back to back without resting or resting as little as possible. You’ll get a cardio effect and you’ll keep building strength.

 Kind of like Tribe Training?

Exactly. You don’t have to worry about running or all the boring stuff. (Laughs)  Running isn’t for everybody. Well, you can do it outside with a goal or a destination. A treadmill doesn’t work for me.

I know it’s an excuse you hear all the time… but time really is precious for me. I’m a single mom, I work full time and I’m raising three kids on my own. Do I really need to workout every day for it to make a difference? 

Every day is better if you can make time for it, yes.  Well, what’s your answer for it? You’re a mother of four!

I don’t work out every day!

You don’t work out every day, you don’t have to.

 I do 3 or 4 days a week. Some weeks I do two.  I don’t beat myself up over it.

Right, exactly. You don’t have to beat yourself up over it. If you can do four days a week, great. If it’s something you mentally have to do every day, make a little time for it, even if its fifteen minutes its better than nothing.

 I’ve had days and nights that were so crazy, I would just do 10 push-ups before bed.

It’s something, something to keep it part of your lifestyle.  There’s 168 hours in a week, there’s time.

I do counter pushups while I cook dinner or throw the radio on and dance like fools in the kitchen with the kids.

 It all adds up!

 I missed a day at the gym this week, i do different machines Tuesday thru Thursday should i double up on my work out the next day? Does that make sense...

It depends kind of what her routine is. But, yeah she can, why not?  Just do it and then modify the week.  I would double up, it can’t hurt.

Tell me about Tribe Training.  I’ve been seeing you post about it but I’ve never heard of it.  There isn’t a lot of information on it.

It originated in New Zealand, came to North America, up in Canada and now here. It is new, she’s right. We are the only gym in Massachusetts to offer it and we’re super excited about it.

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We ended our conversation here.  What I loved about today is that while we were talking, we mentioned that I was going to be blogging my Tribe Training experience to the other trainers nearby.  Every single one of them was super excited and so supportive.  Honestly, this is probably the part of a place like Healthrax.  You will be supported and encouraged and motivated by everyone there.  the atmosphere at a health club is very different than that at a 24 hour cardio-focused center. 

 If I could offer some totally unprofessional advice, it would be to find a gym that has qualified staff and is filled with people from every stage and level of fitness.  It is an amazing thing to workout next to a sixty year old woman recovering from knee surgery or a man who has 200 pounds to lose and on the other side of you is a runner training for an ultramarathon or a body building breaking a new personal record.  If everyone in your gym is unhealthy... you need to ask why that is.  A good gym or club will have fit people in them.  There is a reason for this and a large part of that is access to professional advice and coaching.
For more information on Tribe Training, Tribe Life or Tribe Fit click on the links. 


Sunday, February 22, 2015

Time



I hear this A LOT.  You have either rolled your eyes at this statement as I have or you're saying it to yourself right now.

Imma call bullshit.

What you really mean is, "I don't want to make the time."

Let's be really honest about this.  I used this excuse for years.  I could list all the things I have to do every day, I could go on and on about responsibilities, working full time, kids, pets, house, family, yada yada yada.

Its bullshit.  

I was scared that it wouldn't be worth my time.  You probably are too.  Its daunting to find out exactly how far you have let yourself go.  And let's face it, not all of us love to feel the burn or not be able to walk down the stairs for a few days after doing a few dozen lunges.

It hurts!!  It really does.  Burning fat hurts.  Building muscle hurts.  You get all sweaty and your face gets all red and you itch.  When you first start out, that itch can be intense.

That itch is from your body panicking and releasing histamines.  Histamines get your immune system revved up and ready to deal with whatever disease/virus/foreign body is attacking it.  Congratulations!  You've been inert long enough that your body has decided to react by believing its under attack.  Don't worry, I promise it goes away.

So... you have the time.  Everyone has the time.  If its twice a week in your living for 20 minutes... then do it.  It its every other day for an hour at a gym... then do it.  Do something.

Check out this article from Men's Fitness. This is dedicated to at-home workouts that will help you burn fat and build muscle.  A jump rope costs $5, push ups are free.  There is really no excuse, there's just you stopping you.

Get off your phone or computer.  Really.  Time is precious.


Saturday, February 21, 2015

It Begins ... Again

Here it is almost one year to the day since I started taking control of my health.  I'm sitting here, forty-two years old, mom of four, working full time, trying to make all the ends meet and keep the lights on and I am healthier in this moment than I have ever been in my whole adult life.

1989 - dance class at Galipeau's School of Dance Granby, MA
I was a dancer until I was around 24.  Nearly two decades of leg warmers, ballet lessons, and pointe shoes had me pretty damn strong and flexible.  But I wasn't healthy inside.  I had a warped sense of what my body looked like and what I wanted it to be.  I wanted to be bony and skinny and delicate.  I never was after I hit sixteen.

I was crazy fit at the age of sixteen, but I didn't know that then.  My legs were strong, my core was strong and I was very flexible. I had a lot of muscle, so when I was seventeen and stepped on the scale and saw that I weighed a solid thirty pounds than what I considered healthy, I began doing things that were terrible.

My issues with my body began in 1987.  Constantly finding faults where there were none, critiquing and criticizing and judging how I looked and what the scale said and how little I could eat in a day.  I remember being twenty years old in 1992 and not buying a dress because my hip bones were sticking out and I thought it made me look fat.  I thought my bones jutting out made me look fat.  If that's not fucked up, I don't know what is.

Jump forward twenty years and I was on the other side of this.  I was heavy.  Moreover, I was very, very unhealthy. I was in pain all the time, I was depressed, I was filled with anxiety and I had had enough.  You can read up on this on the Fibromyalgia page.

I need you to know right now that I have not ever been obese.  I have no idea what that is like.  I don't know what its like to be judged, gawked at or made fun of for being fat.  My journey isn't about losing a hundred pounds.  I was always on this side of the "socially acceptable" size.  I can't even imagine what that is like or how difficult that journey would be.  My story is more about dealing with pain and body dismorphia and disordered eating.

This page isn't about getting skinny.  

One year ago I decided to bring that shit into the present tense.  I was done. I had had enough of not being able to hike, of feeling like I was one broken hip away from a lifetime of misery.  I was convinced I would die of a heart attack.  I got scared.  

I don't like being scared.  

So, I changed.  It was hard.  It was worth it.

This blog is dedicated to living a healthy life.  Inside to outside.  There is no size I want to be.  There is no number waiting for me on the scale.  There are numberless ways my life has improved because of the changes I made over the last year and I'd really like to share this journey with you.  

I don't think change is hard.  I think starting was hard, but change has always been my friend.  Starting? That was scary.  I hope this little spot helps someone make that start.  

I'm not a nutritionist.  I'm not a fitness expert.  I'm not a doctor.  I'm just an asshole who decided she was done with the constant pain and backaches from living  sedentary life.

In one week I will begin another new journey with an entirely new way of working out and challenging myself.  I decided it would be interesting to blog my way through.  That work out is Tribe Fit and I truly believe that it will lead me to a new level of health and fitness I had never imagined for myself. 

Part of this will mean having to post some photos I'll one day surely regret.  Its okay.  I think its important to track this, to see the results so I can believe them.  I think anyone who has made a healthier change in their lives can understand that.  I still see the old me in the mirror.  I still expect to take up more space than I do.  I still can't just grab my real size off a rack and believe its going to fit.  The inside hasn't caught up with the outside.  I think this might help.  I think this year the inside is going to have to get to it because I can't keep seeing the faults only. 

So, here goes.  I'm a little scared...  But that's never stopped me before.